This!

Also remind me, sophie, once I come back from vacation, that we will sit down in irc and I will coach you through how women move -- not just posture/etc, but women and men walk very differently (it's biological, mostly -- has to do with the hips and the tits), and it's something so subtle that most people don't notice consciously but their subconscious mind will process it. There's only so much of it I can do over the internet, but if we're ever in the same place I will totally coach you. *g*